Love is blind

Yesterday me and my friend went to one of my friend house <u might know him from my past blog post>.. we were invited to his brother’s wedding ceremony..

but of course that is not what i’m truly going to talk about here.. it’s actually what happened after..

on the way back to send my friend home, we’ve talked and one of the topic of that day was about her relationship.. her love relationship..

u see, she has been going out or should i say coupled with this one guy for about 4 or 5 years now.. and she’s afraid that the relationship isn’t going any where.. its look pretty much hanging even to me..

they don’t act like any other couple either.. the guy looks like more into going out with his friend rather than maybe spent time with my friend i.e his girlfriend..

and there’s a lot more issues in her relationship with that guy <of course i can’t mention it here u silly!>

so, she had asked me for an opinion.. what should she do with her relationship..

with everything that i know about her and her boyfriend i said “I’m not sure if what i’m thinking of is the best but this is my opinion.. “you should really just put a stop to the relationship because dear, i don’t want you to waste your time and he seems really don’t care about you.”

then my friend said “i know or maybe i don’t know what he want from this relationship but still i love him.. he’s my first love”

then i stopped her and said “You know right that is just my opinion.. it’s really up to you.. but if you decided to break up i know it will be tough thing to do especially on the part where you have to forget him but one thing i know for sure time is the only heal for that matter.. just like when i tried to forget ____ .. it took almost 3 years of my life”

“Is he your first love?” she then asked

“he might not be my first love.. but i love him very much.. much more than my 1st love.. (then i started feeling embarrass a little bit..huhuhu) just like how you love yours.. so what will you do?”

“Actually i’m thinking about waiting for him.. you know.. besides, i’ve no interest in other guys.. is it wrong?”

“dear, it’s totally not wrong for you to wait for your love ones! hey! maybe he want you to wait for him <or maybe not>.. like i used to except i’m the one who stop waiting <which i’ve regret so much>.. but try to set the limit.. you can’t wait for him forever and i really want to go to your wedding someday you know? <me n my friend laugh at the words i said> what ever it is you want to do.. you should know i support you okay?”

and our conversation ended in front of her house..

i may not be doctor love, but i’ve once love and be loved.. i’m sure lots of people out there has their own trouble in love but most of the time when you love someone you tend to be blinded by the fact that you love him or her.. and to me, it is totally not wrong at all..

but then, to be blinded all the way might be a big problem too! i’ve always has this one principle and i take it to my heart so that whenever i fail in love i don’t ever think about suicide <which i find most teenagers today tend to think about>

love from others might come and go … but not the love from your family..

 

p/s: sometimes blinded person sees better  

 

XMXIXNXE

Lynd@…

5 things MUST have in my bag

Actually i’m really interested to share about all of my 5 things like 5 things to have, 5 things must have and anything that i could think of..

after figure out what should i start with, i’ve decided (after what i’ve called a meticulous brainstorming lol) to share 5 things i must have in my bag whenever i go out..

1. My purse

This thing is important coz i’ve got everything in my purse.. my cash, debit cards, loyalty cards (i really find it hard to shop without one!), name cards etc.. – still use my Bonia purse.. don’t have money to buy a new one but of course some day i might have to buy it.. maybe of Fossil?

2. Instant Hand Sanitizer

This is a must have in my bag! didn’t i tell ya dat i has what people called OCD? yes baby! i’m afraid of germs .. REALLY afraid.. This thing is important bcoz when i go out with my family or friends, in most occasion i need to use the public toilet.. i don’t think i need to give the details coz ya’ll know how the public toilet looks like right?? (one thing that drive me crazy is that they never bother to refill the hand soap! and sometimes even the tissue!)  – i always prefer Dettol brand -

3. Pure Water Facial Mist

This is one of the things that i always brings along whenever i’m out of the house.. Long hours expose to the sun, air cond makes my skin feel dehydrated.. the facial mist help to keep my skin refreshed and moisturized.. – i used ZA facial mist before i change it to The Face Shop Jeju Marine facial mist.. both are good anyway -

4. Hand Cream

Usually i bring with me 30ml hand cream in my bag in case my hand gets a little dry.. for me any hand cream will do but recently i prefer The Body Shop Jolly Orange hand cream coz it smells good! and the size is just right for my handbag..

5. Hand phone

oh yes! among other things this is really NECESSARY! other people might write it as hand phones <i even bold it so you notice!> but mine still hand phone .. and correct me if i’m wrong but most of people today using Samsung, Sony, HTC <no offence guys!>.. anything that use android.. and me, sadly but i’m not.. i still using my symbian os phone given by my father.. as bad as it is sound i still like things that have keypad instead of touchpad.. but then if father want to buy me a new one then there’s no way i could refuse right? <send a winking smile to my father>

 

XMXIXNXE,

Lynd@…

Friends till Jannah…

title says it all right?

*smiling a lot* <trust me!>

If i have to listed out names of people that i would really trust with all my heart and the ones that i would call a true friends, two names will always be on top of the list! 

and these two people has been there for me.. sweet and even bitter times in my life..

weirdly enough we don’t started out as besties.. well not until we had finished high school.. our friendship developed over time.. and in those times we had build a strong relationship with each other ..

K.e is the most trusted friend i’ve ever had.. she had all my dirty little secret in her hand so if u want it <well not that i recommended it coz i’m pretty sure my lady won’t give up a thing >

Nieyda has always been by my side.. and without fail, had lend me her ears each time i have crap in my mind that i really need to spill out in words..

they really adorable isn’t they?

till this day.. i’ve always been thankful to the Almighty that even through hard times.. i still have these people that i cherish so much by my side..

‘friendship till jannah’ once had been our WhatsApp group name.. K.e had came out with it.. and even though we’ve changed our group name, the true meaning of ‘friendship till jannah’ still is what we look forward to in this almost 6 years <correct me if i’m wrong!) of friendship..

and i really wanted to say this to you guys..

Thank you .. with all my heart, i really thank you for being true to me and being there for me.. i love you guys so much and the only thing that i want is just to be friends with you guys as long as my life would be in this world..

Credit to K.e for this luvly edited pics of us on the beach!

 

<i’ve tried hard to be as "tall” as K.e.. hehe oh dear!>

 

 

p/s: love u guys so much!!

 

XMXIXNXE

Lynd@…