Love is blind

Yesterday me and my friend went to one of my friend house <u might know him from my past blog post>.. we were invited to his brother’s wedding ceremony..

but of course that is not what i’m truly going to talk about here.. it’s actually what happened after..

on the way back to send my friend home, we’ve talked and one of the topic of that day was about her relationship.. her love relationship..

u see, she has been going out or should i say coupled with this one guy for about 4 or 5 years now.. and she’s afraid that the relationship isn’t going any where.. its look pretty much hanging even to me..

they don’t act like any other couple either.. the guy looks like more into going out with his friend rather than maybe spent time with my friend i.e his girlfriend..

and there’s a lot more issues in her relationship with that guy <of course i can’t mention it here u silly!>

so, she had asked me for an opinion.. what should she do with her relationship..

with everything that i know about her and her boyfriend i said “I’m not sure if what i’m thinking of is the best but this is my opinion.. “you should really just put a stop to the relationship because dear, i don’t want you to waste your time and he seems really don’t care about you.”

then my friend said “i know or maybe i don’t know what he want from this relationship but still i love him.. he’s my first love”

then i stopped her and said “You know right that is just my opinion.. it’s really up to you.. but if you decided to break up i know it will be tough thing to do especially on the part where you have to forget him but one thing i know for sure time is the only heal for that matter.. just like when i tried to forget ____ .. it took almost 3 years of my life”

“Is he your first love?” she then asked

“he might not be my first love.. but i love him very much.. much more than my 1st love.. (then i started feeling embarrass a little bit..huhuhu) just like how you love yours.. so what will you do?”

“Actually i’m thinking about waiting for him.. you know.. besides, i’ve no interest in other guys.. is it wrong?”

“dear, it’s totally not wrong for you to wait for your love ones! hey! maybe he want you to wait for him <or maybe not>.. like i used to except i’m the one who stop waiting <which i’ve regret so much>.. but try to set the limit.. you can’t wait for him forever and i really want to go to your wedding someday you know? <me n my friend laugh at the words i said> what ever it is you want to do.. you should know i support you okay?”

and our conversation ended in front of her house..

i may not be doctor love, but i’ve once love and be loved.. i’m sure lots of people out there has their own trouble in love but most of the time when you love someone you tend to be blinded by the fact that you love him or her.. and to me, it is totally not wrong at all..

but then, to be blinded all the way might be a big problem too! i’ve always has this one principle and i take it to my heart so that whenever i fail in love i don’t ever think about suicide <which i find most teenagers today tend to think about>

love from others might come and go … but not the love from your family..

 

p/s: sometimes blinded person sees better  

 

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